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CANDIDA LAWRENCE
Sartorial Notes On a Man I Knew
Once Upon a Time May He Rest
in Peace

In 1949, he wore World War II Officer pants, tailored to sleek fit, no pleats, of a material close to gabardine, but heavier, of light brown. Above the pants, in cool weather, a turtleneck of soft cotton, usually navy blue, tucked into the pants.

In warm weather, white Oxford button-down collar shirts, tucked in, long sleeves turned up at the cuff, and over the shirt for classroom duty, a weathered Harris tweed sport jacket. All of his Oxford shirts were tailored to fit, with two tucks radiating from shoulder to below the waist. Socks, knit by his ex-wife, had to be washed by hand in gentle soap. The pants could not be washed. He was constantly taking them to the dry-cleaners or picking them up. The shirts had to be ironed perfectly and hung in the closet. He wore white boxer shorts and those had to be ironed as well.
 
He owned only one warm coat. This coat, he said, had been given to him by Henry Miller during a hopeful year-long residence in Big Sur when he was trying to write a novel. The coat was medium gray wool, decorated with moth feeding tracks, and so huge two people could fit inside it. The collar was large, folding back over the shoulders. From the generous yoke in back flowed yards of material down to his ankles. From center back, the gray belt of same material went forth in opposite directions, arrived in front, and after the coat was wrapped around him, could be casually tied. Except for the material, the coat looked like a bathrobe. We both were unrestrained in our admiration of this garment. It smelled of mothballs and tobacco. 

He had, for rainy weather, a beige Burberry with no belt. He liked to carry with him a black umbrella which he often left wherever he’d just been, and had to go back to claim it. He used it like a cane and opened it only to protect his briefcase or books.

This was in California.

In 1950, on a humid, 100-degree afternoon, he attended the first gathering of new Princeton Ph.D. candidates, held outdoors in a garden. Drinks were served, wives were there in pastel sundresses, there were sandwiches cut in the shape of the Princeton triangle, visited by mosquitoes and flies.

Everyone glistened with sweat. He wore, with his Officer pants and Oxford shirt, a vivid red-maroon light wool jacket, with gold buttons down the front (three on each side) and two gold buttons on each cuff. All the other men were either without jackets or wearing seersucker, gray and white. From the comments made, he learned that no one had worn red or maroon at Princeton in living memory. Everyone congratulated him on his bravado, his specificity, and mentioned his jacket first, then talked academic shop and ate and drank.

For Christmas, that first Princeton winter, his mother on the west coast sent him a suit she had had made from a length of material she herself had lovingly constructed on a loom. Construct is the right word because the material was stiff, thick, and refused to accept a crease. Jacket, pants (officer style) and vest. The interwoven colors were navy blue, maroon and beige. He wore it in cold weather but complained that the wool itched his legs and his crotch (his “balls”) and it was much too warm as soon as he entered a building. He soon took to leaving the vest and pants carefully hanging on a special hanger in the closet and wearing the jacket occasionally although he complained that the itch went right through his shirt to his shoulders and neck.

The second Princeton summer, he invested in a seersucker jacket, several beige chambray cotton pants, and four expensive white Chinese cotton short- sleeved shirts. At home, he solved the heat problem by taking all garments off, or never putting anything on from early morning until he had to leave the house. His California sandals had rotted away the previous summer and he bought mesh sandals to wear outside. Inside our house, he went barefoot, and claimed that his toes were fungused. He would have liked to wear Bermuda shorts on campus (he had several pair) but no one wore shorts to class or to the library, except students, who sometimes took off their shirts and poured water or beer onto their hairy chests.

The third Princeton summer he lived naked in an overstuffed chair which oozed his sweat. He read all summer, day and night, and passed his exams in cotton pants and shirt, in brown hard leather shoes—for the occasion.

In early fall, having garnered funds from selling all of our possessions, except clothes, he bought a charcoal gray wool suit (no vest), the uniform, he had been told, of American scholars in Munich, where he was headed on a Fulbright grant. Also two white drip-dry nylon shirts which turned more gray with each washing.

In 1953, in Munich, he wore 4711 cologne, the favorite of Germans, and Arrid deodorant, used only by Americans, available at convenient PX stores.

In an elevator, in our newly built apartment, he faced another American who was wearing an identical charcoal gray suit, and each man was clutching a copy of David Riesman’s “Individualism Reconsidered.”

During two Munich winters, he could be seen in his Henry Miller bathrobe-coat, on his bicycle, the excess cloth billowing out to the rear, a ski-mask of navy blue hugging his neck and ears. His mother’s wool suit was again worn and no longer itched, perhaps because it was cold outdoors, and inside the underground library bunkers.

On a visit to Paris, he acquired a brown beret which he wore at sidewalk cafés and was often mistaken for a Frenchman, which pleased him.

When we traveled by train to Athens and Rome, we packed and wore only black outer garments that we purchased or borrowed on the theory that black wouldn’t show dirt and we were traveling cheap. Our clothes got so dirty that simply wearing them turned our skin gray, dotted the pores black.

Back in the United States, with wife and two children and minimal academic wage, he wore the above garments, or in hot weather, nothing if indoors at home.

He did not, ever, wear jeans.

Sometime between 1955 and 1962 he added tennis clothes: white, white everything, shorts, T-shirt, Keds, socks. He retired his bathrobe coat which was a tee-pee shape and bought a heavy dark gray rectangle coat with enormous padded shoulders.

In divorce court in 1953, he wore smooth brown gabardine, Italian polished pointy-toe loafers, a white shirt with French cuffs and a Countess Mara tie the color of cherry juice streaked with cobalt-blue lightning.
 

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